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The complexity of "safe space": rethinking language in service to LGBTQ+, Black, POC, and Disabled Communities

Updated: Aug 1

In the world of inclusive services, the term "safe space" is often used to signify environments where marginalised groups—such as LGBTQ+ individuals, Black communities, People of Colour (POC)/Global Majority, and Disabled people—can feel secure, respected, and free from discrimination. While the intention behind creating and promoting "safe spaces" is undoubtedly positive, it's crucial to recognise that this term may not always be appropriate or sufficient. Let's explore why this is the case and how we can rethink our approach to inclusivity and safety.


Understanding the Term "Safe Space"


The concept of a "safe space" emerged from the need to provide marginalised groups with environments where they could express themselves without fear of judgement or harm. In these spaces, individuals are supposed to find refuge from the biases and prejudices that pervade broader society. While the idea is well-intentioned, it is essential to understand the complexities and limitations of the term.


a cartoon placard with a wooden handle that reads in red capitals 'THIS IS A SAFE SPACE" with a rainbow coloured heart at the bottom


The Limitations of "Safe Space"


1. Subjectivity of Safety

What feels safe for one person might not feel safe for another. Safety is highly subjective, influenced by individual experiences, traumas, and fears. Declaring a space as "safe" can inadvertently dismiss the varying degrees of comfort and security experienced by different individuals within marginalised communities.


2. Overpromising Safety

Promoting a service or environment as a "safe space" can sometimes lead to overpromising and underdelivering. Despite the best efforts, it is impossible to guarantee complete safety from micro-aggressions, misunderstandings, or even overt discrimination. This can lead to feelings of betrayal or disillusionment when the promised safety is not fully realised.


3. Ignoring Intersectionality

People exist at the intersection of multiple identities, and their experiences of marginalisation can be multifaceted. A space that is safe for an LGBTQ+ person might not address the specific needs and concerns of Black, POC, or Disabled individuals, and vice versa. It's essential to consider how intersecting identities influence the perception of safety.


4. Perpetuating a False Sense of Security

Labelling a space as "safe" can sometimes create a false sense of security, leading to complacency. It can prevent continuous evaluation and improvement of practices and policies to ensure they genuinely address the needs of marginalised communities.


5. Limited Personal Perspective

Even if you are part of a marginalised community, you cannot know everything about the experiences of other marginalised groups. This limitation means you might not be able to create a space that is 100% safe for everyone. Acknowledging this can create a more honest and inclusive approach to service.

pop-art in yellow, pink and green - the pink reads 'Allies Assemble!"

Moving Beyond "Safe Space"


1. Creating Brave Spaces

Instead of focusing solely on safety, consider creating "brave spaces." Brave spaces encourage open dialogue, vulnerability, and mutual respect, acknowledging that discomfort and difficult conversations are part of the growth and learning process. These spaces emphasise resilience and empowerment, rather than the absence of challenge.


2. Prioritising Active Allyship

Ensure that your commitment to inclusivity goes beyond labels. Active allyship involves continuous education, listening, and adapting to the needs of marginalised communities. It means taking tangible actions to support and uplift these communities, rather than relying solely on symbolic gestures.


3. Engaging in Ongoing Dialogue

Create channels for ongoing feedback and dialogue with the communities you aim to serve. Regularly engage with LGBTQ+, Black, POC, and Disabled individuals to understand their evolving needs and concerns. This ensures that your services remain relevant and genuinely supportive.


4. Implementing Inclusive Practices

Develop and implement policies and practices that promote inclusivity at all levels. This includes hiring diverse staff, providing comprehensive training on cultural competency and anti-discrimination, and ensuring that your physical and digital spaces are accessible and welcoming to all.


5. Being Transparent and Honest

Be transparent about the efforts and limitations in creating inclusive environments. Acknowledge that while you strive to make your services as welcoming and supportive as possible, there is always room for improvement and growth.


6. Recognising Personal Limitations

Acknowledge that even if you are from a marginalised community, your perspective is limited. You cannot fully understand all the nuances of other marginalised groups' experiences. This recognition can drive a more empathetic and inclusive approach, ensuring continuous learning and adaptation.



Alternative Terms to "Safe Space"


While "safe space" is a popular term, there are alternative phrases that might better capture the dynamic and inclusive environments we aim to create:


1. Empowering Space

A place where individuals are uplifted, supported, and encouraged to be their authentic selves.


2. Brave Space

An environment that encourages open dialogue, growth, and the courage to confront difficult issues.


3. Inclusive Space

A setting where diversity is celebrated, and all voices are welcomed and valued.


4. Supportive Space

A space that provides the necessary resources, understanding, and care for all individuals.


5. Respectful Space

An environment that emphasises mutual respect, understanding, and the dignity of all participants.


A celebrant sits between the couple in a green and black pokadot jumpsuit and lime green cardigan holding the ceremony book whilst the couple sit opposite eachother. The person with short hair, beard and glasses is wearing a blue 3 piece suit and holding one end of the ribbon. Their partner is sat opposite in a bright pink dress with a brightly colour floral headband and is sat in their wheelchair, holding the other end of the ribbon during their hand fasting ceremony.

A non-binary person holds the hand of their girlfriend whilst wearing a wedding suit. His girlfriend is wearing a long sleeved white wedding dress and holding a large flower boquet

An LGBTQ+ couple embrace in a kiss. The person on the left is wearing a mustard yellow suit with a 70s style orange shirt underneath and the person on the right is wearing a white suit with a white cowboy hat against a black wooden background and white confetti

While the concept of a "safe space" is rooted in good intentions, it is essential to recognise its limitations and strive for more nuanced and effective approaches to inclusivity. By creating brave spaces, prioritising active allyship, engaging in ongoing dialogue, implementing inclusive practices, recognising personal limitations, and being transparent, we can create environments that truly support and uplift LGBTQ+, Black, POC/Global Majority, and Disabled individuals. Let’s commit to continuous learning and action, ensuring that our services genuinely reflect the diverse and dynamic communities we serve.

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